Love & Relationships

Looking For Your Soulmate? – 5 “Small” Changes That Will Help

By Cindy Smith

Finding your Soulmate

Need some relationship tips to identify your soulmate? You’re not alone! Many people give up on ever finding their soulmate because they think the search is hopeless, but the reality is that finding your life partner is easier than you think. All you have to do is make a few small changes to the way you approach your search. Follow these five relationship tips and you will find your soulmate sooner than you think!

Tip #1 – List your desires.

Use your imagination and make a list of everything you want in your ideal soulmate. Don’t “settle” for anything less than exactly what you’re looking for.

Tip #2 – List your deal breakers.

Knowing your desires is important, but equally important is knowing the things you absolutely do not want in a soulmate. If you had trouble coming up with a list of desires, start with this list of deal breakers and then write the opposite of each negative quality beside it to come up with a list of all the positive qualities you want to find in your soulmate.

Tip #3 – Learn to forgive.

If you go through life without learning how to forgive yourself and others, you’ll never have room in your life for your soulmate, because these negative thoughts and feelings, usually about past relationships, create a wall around you that will push your soulmate away.

Tip #4 – Ditch the baggage.

This goes hand in hand with forgiveness. Let go of any emotional baggage you are carrying through life. The last thing you want is to find your soulmate only to turn them off by carrying around all of the emotional baggage from failed relationships in the past.

Tip #5 – Realize that you are already complete.

Finding your soulmate isn’t about searching for the person that completes you. You’re already a complete and whole person, but that doesn’t mean you’re perfect. People are attracted to others that strive to better themselves. Make a conscious effort to raise your self-awareness and better understand the issues that you need to work on in your life. For example, if you have a negative outlook on life or relationships because of bad experiences in the past, work to overcome those issues so that when you do find your soulmate, you won’t push them away.


(Photo: Nikita Patel)

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